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Ask SHIC: Are all cold sores herpes?

Dear SHIC, It’s that time of year again and I’m getting cold sores, but what I’m confused about is whether or not cold sores are herpes. Are they? What about genital herpes? Can I give someone genital herpes if I have a cold sore and perform oral sex on them? -Dealing with the cold (sore)…

SHIC on abstinence, asking for handcuffs

Dear SHIC, I’m a fourth-year student and just wanted to make it known that college life doesn’t have to include sex. It hasn’t for me and I’m perfectly content and comfortable! I appreciate all that you do, but am curious to know of SHIC’s sentiment on abstinence. After all, you are the Sexual Health Information…

Ask SHIC: Threesomes and increasing your sexual potential

Dear SHIC, My partner and I are really interested in trying a threesome. We’ve got a couple of people in mind for the third partner, but we’re wondering how to practice safe sex when there are three people involved. Do you switch condoms between partners or what? Thanks, Three’s a Crowd! Hey Three! Yes, yes,…

Ask SHIC: SHIC talks toys and going all the way

Dear SHIC, I’m interested in introducing toys into my relationship with my partner, however, I am not quite sure how to go about doing that. Could you help a sister out? Toying with Toys Dear Toying with Toys, Introducing toys into the bedroom is always a great way to spice things up with your partner!…

Ask SHIC: SHIC addresses orgasms, grooming

Dear SHIC, How do I know if I’ve experienced an orgasm? I’m unsure if I have orgasmed before and I’m scared that I’ll never be able to have one! HELP! Orgasm-less  Dear Orgasm-less, I’m going to be quite frank here, if you are unsure about whether or not you’ve orgasmed before, you probably haven’t! With…

Ask SHIC: SHIC helps with the difficult conversations

Dear SHIC,  I’ve been in a relationship for a while now, and we’ve been having pretty much the same sex every time. I don’t know how to bring this conversation up without insulting my partner! Help! —AwkTalk Dear AwkTalk, Many people in relationships develop sex routines, and it can be difficult to approach the subject…

Ask SHIC: What does Plan B do, and how do I have phone sex?

Dear SHIC,   I’ve heard that when you use Plan B, you’re basically aborting a fetus. I’m so on the fence about using this emergency contraception. What’s the deal with Plan B? Also, are there any alternatives to this drug? Help!   Concerned About (Emergency) Contraceptives   Dear Concerned About (Emergency) Contraceptives, There are many…

Ask SHIC: Coming, fisting, finger blasting, oh my!

Dear SHIC, Why can’t I make my girlfriend come? Sad BF   Dear Sad BF, If you worry that you are one of the few asking this question … don’t, because there are plenty of men out there who haven’t made a woman come or have trouble with it. Did you know only a third…

Ask SHIC: SHIC clears up myth of getting ‘loose’

Dear SHIC, Loose Dorm is pretty cool, but I’d rather not be “loose” myself, if you know what I mean. If I have too much sex will my vagina get loose?  Sincerely, Sexin’ It Up On South Dear Sexy Southerner, Let’s try a quick, little experiment (no please don’t take off your pants right now;…